Women can sometimes put themselves in some pretty awkward positions when it comes to getting into a relationship. Maybe it is because they just want to be in one so badly, and maybe it is because the believe that they will be able to change the man that they are with. Whatever the reasoning is, sometimes you just have to get to the realization that some men just are not meant for a relationship.

You’ve probably experienced a little of this before. You meet a guy, he seems to be normal, at least. And then he suddenly does things that make you wonder. Maybe he becomes just a little too distant. Or he might have done the opposite and became too possessive, not allowing you to have anything that resembles you having your own life.

For some reason, it’s like women are trained to believe that it must be their fault. You tell yourself that you might be interpreting him wrong, or that he just needs a little work and things will turn out just right.

Still, you have to admit, that some guys just are not cut out for being in a relationship. At least… not a healthy one. But, you are, so you needn’t feel as though you have to accept behaviors that you just don’t like. Of course, I am not talking about those little, trivial things like if he does not clean up the dishes right away after dinner.

It’s the way that he treats you that you really need to consider. Sure, he may have his charm and that may be the reason why you fell for him, but that does not mean that you need to stay with a guy who’s just not cut out for a relationship. And if you feel that you do have to stay, then you may have to deal with raising your standards on what you will accept in your life.

How do you know if a guy just is not meant to be in a relationship?

Start asking him a little bit about his past relationships with women. Sit back and evaluate whether or not there are small things that you can work on, or if there are things that are too big for you to deal with. As hard as it may be to separate from a guy, at times, that can be the best decision that you can make. You have to put yourself first sometimes, and that is not always a bad thing, really.