Getting stuck in the friend zone with a woman you would much rather be more than friends with happens so much in this life, that it’s almost cliche when it does happen. Guys seem to always make the mistake of becoming friends with a woman they would rather be in a relationship with, and when you find yourself in that position, it can be really frustrating. You want to make her see you in the same way that you see her, but how can you make it happen?

Unfortunately, most guys never really seem to be able to figure this out, and they just get used to the idea of being in love with a female friend. Well, that is one way that it can go down, but it’s probably not the best way. If you want to be able to make a woman fall in love with you and get out of the friend zone, there are a few things that you NEED to know.

Here is a little love advice for guys on how to make your friend become your lover:

  1. The first thing that you need to do is to realize that as long as you act like her friend, that’s how she is going to see you.
    Without even really thinking about it, we kind of ‘train’ people to see us in a certain way. And, if you have fallen into the friend zone with a woman, then you have probably trained her to see you as being just a really good friend. As long as you keep acting that way, that is how she is always going to see you. And as long as she thinks of you as a buddy, that’s all she will ever see you.
  2. The next thing that you need to do is decide if it is worth risking the friendship to turn things around.
    You cannot have a reward without some kind of risk, and in this case, that means that you need to be able to handle the risk that you might lose her as a friend. Now, that’s probably not something that you want to happen, but it is a possibility. If you cannot handle that, then there is no use in trying to make her become your lover instead of just your pal.
  3. The third thing that you need to do, is to start treating her the way that you would a woman you want to get with, not be friends with.
    If you don’t make the transition from acting like a buddy to her to acting like a guy who wants to get with her, then you are not going to be able to turn her around. This is where the risk comes in, because there is a possibility that she will not like the new you. However, if you do things the right way, then you can minimize that risk and find a way to make her feel the same exact way that you do.