Canvas any bar or club and you will see countless men approaching women with the high hopes that they will somehow be able to make a good enough impression that they will be able to get a date or maybe even a girlfriend out of the deal. And most of the time… they end up with nothing more than a big fail! Want to know why that is and what makes an approach in a bar or a club work?

First, let’s take a look at why most guys fail when they approach a woman in a bar or a club:

  1. They use recycled lines that she has already been exposed to time and time again.
    Any woman who is half good looking has already heard a ton of these recycled lines and trying to use one of them is just going to get the same result that it always does. She will shoot you down. Why? Because it is so boring, so obvious, and so unoriginal.
  2. They approach without even a speck of confidence.
    You can do the whole fake it till you make it thing all you want. If you walk up to a woman and she can tell that you are hoping that things work out… it probably will not. Why? Because ‘hoping’ that it works out usually signals a lack of confidence. And a lack of confidence usually signals a lonely night.
  3. They try to rush things way too fast.
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    Don’t rush her. Seriously, the more it looks like you are trying to rush things, especially in a bar or a club setting, the more it will come off as a turn off to her and you won’t get nothing close to what you want.

So, if these are 3 ways to fail big time when you approach a woman in a bar or a club, what works?

Well, I could be lazy and just tell you not to do these three things and then you should be good, but I don’t want to be lazy, lol. What you need to do is to get really comfortable at approaching women without any expectation. Why would I suggest that you have no expectation?

Because it takes the pressure right off. It takes it off of you and it takes it off of her. When that pressure is off, then you can just concentrate on having a good time. You can concentrate on flirting with her, getting to know her, and letting her see that irresistible side of you that will compel her to want to get to know you better.